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Memories Of BodyRub


Trial & Error


SACRAMENTO ( i tried )


Ok i try to widen my horizon ( clientele ) from RENO, PLEASANTON & LAS VEGAS to now SACRAMENTO and sorry ( for me ) it was a bust SACRAMENTO, I only seen a few clients ( enough to pay for the HOTEL excluding the outside expenses - food and transport ) - also the client request is very demanding like a few clients cancel cause I won't do their fantasy - #PS what does SACRAMENTO do to these men #LOL - and the hotels are so bad I think MOTEL 6 is five star there.  I'm really sorry if you love SACRAMENTO or you left your heart there ( get it back please ) but it really was the worst trip I ever had, and for that, I scratch out the plan to go back.

I know I'm really harsh but the trip is really bad, so bad I left on my last night and go home.  Sacramento was once the thriving city of California where industry and urban life was the center of it all, now the armpit of California where you plan your next getaway to another city #LOL - Even the clients that I see born and raised in SACRAMENTO only has bad things to say, some even ask me what make me decide to work there, the only big industry there are blue diamond almonds and the other big company are leaving to another city, so people have no extra money for leisure.

Well like I said I tried, but here's to hoping SACRAMENTO will find its way like when it was established as the capital of California.  I think its more about city planning and good governance, like SAN JOSE who would have thought the known armpit of EAST BAY would now be the jewel of it ( check the housing prices there and see what I mean ).

#PS - speaking of SAN JOSE I might try to go there and see if I can build a clientele there, so if you're in / from SAN JOSE and reading this, check out my dates OK and see you ;)


LAS VEGAS ur in my HEART


The first time I came here in the US I probably wrote it in my older blog that I first came to RENO, the second city I been to was Las Vegas, I love Vegas so much that I came back two times after that ( that's 3 times in one year ).  When I started doing the BODY RUB I tried to work there, but word of mouth scared me that they are a little strict in Las Vegas to everything there ( unlicensed masseuse ) other than gambling, I don't want to risk it so I never post or tried it.  There's something about this recent trip that I decided to risk it, maybe its the absence of CRAIGSLIST / BACKPAGE  that make the industry a little anonymous or my filling credit card bills LOL.  So I decided to post in little-known websites and surprisingly I get replies, not as much as I expected but still good enough for me to see that Las Vegas is a viable place.  So I decided on putting Las Vegas on my future schedules, so Vegas I will see you again soon ;)

The LEAVE ME ALONE list


I usually have the rule in my BODYRUB - YOU CAN CONTACT ME BUY I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU - that's my GOLDEN RULE.  DISCRETION with your PERSONAL life is my priority and I respect that.

BUT - - - Yes there's a BUT, since the FOSTA / SESTA stupidity I have no way to contact my regular clients but to follow-up on them so I somewhat break my GOLDEN RULE.  But that leaves me no choice, how would I know if you miss me or want my service again other than to contact you, I know my regular client will contact me if they want - BUT ( again ) most of these clients don't save my details for their own personal situation.  So I make it a point to ONE-TIME text my regular client that I'm in town just to let them know.

MY HEART BREAKS - - - Well I have this regular client back in the day who is like a friend that always tells me that I'm like a family to him cause I see him monthly sometimes twice a month who text me back - HOW CAN I BE IN YOUR LEAVE ME ALONE LIST - which kinda breaks my heart.  You can just say nicely - CAN YOU NOT CONTACT ME ANYMORE, THANKS - and not be a DEUCE about it.  And so I block his number never to contact him forever, it hurts because I been always nice to him and he to me, but that's the past and things changes.

SO - - - to end this post, I like to apologize to the regular clients that I text broadcast when I'm in town, blame it to FOSTA / SESTA ( i hope this change eventually ) - and be NICE if you receive my text and you don't want me to contact you anymore just reply nicely to STOP and I will.  Plus I'm not like a TELEMARKETER who texts you every time, I only do it once when I'm in town ONCE ( that's once every 2 or 3 months ) - so don't be a DEUCE about it, thanks for reading ( see I'm very nice )...

We Are What We Are


We are beautiful
We are resilient
We are majestic
We are unique
We are kind
We are loving
We are peaceful
We are smart
We are respectful
We are you and me
If you have a problem with us
Look into the mirror and see
The real problem, that is you...

Memoirs Of Body Rub - partie un


Twas the night of chance, Henry the man of the night was feeling precarious, all his life he lives in red where life is restricted and judgment was easily given to anyone outside of the norm.  Henry's favorite color is blue no wonder he feels freed and at home from where he is right now, in the blue.  But the ways and culture he was built into echoes to him like conscience he wants to silence just once - if only he can escape, if only.  And the thought of the possibility overshadows the conscience that slowly deafening.  He is in blue and it's his chance, possibly his only chance to try something he always wants to do.  And Henry will or else this story is already over...

With a click, he found a way to escape, so many options so little time, there's this and that, that and this - a line that separates guilt and pleasure, you never know unless you take a chance, that's life in its entirety, take a chance.  He clicks on the girl in red, the girl in blue seems too much for his first time, so he sends his best and gets a reply.  A place and time parallel to a result that either put him in danger or sweet sweet solitude, and this somewhat excites Henry, as a pop-up site about BDSM came on his screen, close it Henry stay in the virgin territory...


It's happening and here Henry was wishing and hoping it will be an experience worth the risk - or please at the least pleasant, it's his first time, and the God of blue would give him that.  Driving to the Ms red was hard, the mixed emotion of excitement and fear envelopes him - when Henry makes it to the destination the fear wins as he decided on backing out, his thought is blue and red is the color of danger...

fade to black...

Forward, Backwards and further Back


Ok here's my view of what's happening to the "New America" as the title indicate we did step FORWARD on the last administration and ten times BACKWARDS in this new one.  I knew it will be a mess from the moment the administration turns but never thought it will be this kind of a mess, like a toilet, overflows and if it's not worse enough you slip and fell into it.  I will not get into details of all the shit that overflows from the toilet but focus on the shit that fell on my face, LOL.
I was happily planning my next trip and posting early on CRAIGSLIST to make a timetable for scheduling the appointment and as I click on the PERSONALS ads I was blocked this time, not by the flaggers but the system itself, the FOSTA /SESTA.
FOSTA ( Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act ) and SESTA ( Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act ).  The bill with its definition is self-explanatory but if you go deeper into the bill it mostly criminalized sexual freedom.

READ ON-
https://www.engadget.com/2018/03/30/congress-just-legalized-sex-censorship-what-to-know/
https://lawfareblog.com/fosta-new-anti-sex-trafficking-legislation-may-not-end-internet-its-not-good-law-either
http://time.com/5217280/sex-trafficking-fosta-craigstlist-reddit/

 
I seriously was writing this blog for 5 days and I just decided on letting you guys read on it, for me this bill is useless, I'm 100% on board with the sex trafficking being identified and stop and I believe there's a place in hell for people doing this ruthless thing, but this bill goes too far and beyond affecting consensual sex seekers, discriminating LGBT, and sexual curiosity that involves each and every one of us.  We are seriously living backward, whats next our internet being watch and censored by the government, oh never mind it's already happening, SHIT...

End of an Era


Well, I guess this is long coming, SESTA/FOSTA originated when BACKPAGE was allegedly caught with child trafficking and forced prostitution, the case was dismissed and the site was not held accountable.  Since then the GOP was up and about to give justice and concocted a bill to protect the children and trafficking which I am 100% on board, I believe there's a special place in hell for these people.  But since its the GOP they decide to move further and put their Catholic ways in the bill, its a sin these prostitutes are doing let's include them in the bill, consensual sex was also a sin its outside of the holy matrimony let's also include that, oh and the good book said procreate let's make the distribution of condoms a felony, our leader cheated with a porn star while his wife is pregnant, there's nothing wrong with that, grab them by the pussy - its OK and other brilliant ideas that only the GOP can come up with.
I'm just practicing my first amendments and this is my view of the shits that's been happening, I believe in free speech, the freedom of sexual expression, and the right to make a living.

Please if you're reading this, let's turn it around on the MIDTERMS in November, let's claim this country back, I love AMERICA so much and I'm not even born here, let's bring back this beautiful land of the free country to those who will love her back...