Mean Girls Vs. Cinderella

Yes, the title are two of my favorite movies if there's a comfort food this is similar to comfort movie the third one is "Bridesmaid" just to put it out there, I can never be gayer having three of my top movies as chick-flick #lol
But in all seriousness, the title says Mean Girls Vs. Cinderella, I think women/transwomen, in general, can either be one of these, though I'm more inclined to Cinderella - yeah I know it's so common for a trans to choose the heroine but I'm serious women are mean to me specially in my age range, the older women are nice to me mostly but girls, younger girls, they hate me, I don't know why?
There's this one scenario where I park outside of the discount outlet and this girl is looking at me from inside her car, I smile on her and she looks away like she kind of snub me.  But I give her the benefit of the doubt she probably hates her day knowing that she's in the discount outlet rather than in Nordstrom.
Oh in one occasion in the grocery store, one woman literally block me from entering the store and I have to get away from her way or she will literally run me over by her cart. Again I gave her the benefit of the doubt, she must be having a bad day and it's her chocolate run.
One more, laundry day where the lazy me have to pile up my dirty clothes before I do the wash, so I'm carrying these two two loads  going to the laundry room, this girl already see me from the window coming, if it's me I would immediately open the door cause that's the humane thing to do, no she didn't open the door or help me when I drop the clothes entering the laundry room.  Doing the wash I try to be friendly and have a short conversation like it's hot today with a smile and she just nod her head and look away.  No benefit of the doubt this time she's just mean.

In psychology, they studied the being mean are related to self-esteem, the lower once self-esteem the meaner they view the world.  It's like their self-worth is being challenged by the world around them, meaning an individual like me or even a common individual - threatened a part of their personality.
So all in all this psychological explanation just vague an already vague situation, so I probably just leave it to the idea that I'm thankful I see the world better than these girls, and that one day my prince will come #LOL