Where my Boys at ( SAN JOSE, CA )

Call it peer pressure or the rumor mill that SAN JOSE has the money so  I decided to try my luck in the valley of the silicon ( or the other way around ).  It must be that I book this trip on holiday or the not so typical service I offer that for the second time I failed or the boys ( client ) failed me.  Remember that just last month SACRAMENTO breaks my heart and I'm still healing and now here I am in SAN JOSE bringing on the heartbreak.

Though on my last day which is today MONDAY, I actually have plenty of inquiries and committed client I just don't have the time, so I believe there is hope, I just have to book it on weekdays and never on a holiday.  So it's not that bad, I'll definitely come back but most probably next year.

Calling all the BRAVE men

where you at, where you at - surely not in MOTEL 6 cause you cancel on me not once but four times ( crying emoji )

ok, when I book this recent trip in Pleasanton I was thinking about the money I will save booking MOTEL 6, I didn't think of the money I will lose which I should have considered.  but I'm bad at Math so I think the odds are against me, to begin with.

so apparently MOTEL 6 has a reputation of being the place that busts drugs and held sting operation for prostitution, there I thought these only happen in the boondocks or in reality TV - remember that guy who entered a very secluded house which is an obvious sign of a sting operation, that was dumb right but he still goes LOL.  so these guys ( 4 cancellations) that wanted a BodyRub decided to drive back and text me they won't go to MOTEL 6 because of that rumors.  Tittle-tattles which a few BRAVE MEN ( the title implies ) has to overcome and see me in spite of it all, which i'm happy and thankful. the lesson of this experience, RESEARCH - don't book MOTEL 6 if you're doing BodyRub or drugs ( the latter you should never do anywhere actually ) - and there is still BRAVE MEN out there WINK WINK...

SACRAMENTO ( i tried )

Ok i try to widen my horizon ( clientele ) from RENO, PLEASANTON & LAS VEGAS to now SACRAMENTO and sorry ( for me ) it was a bust SACRAMENTO, I only seen a few clients ( enough to pay for the HOTEL excluding the outside expenses - food and transport ) - also the client request is very demanding like a few clients cancel cause I won't do their fantasy - #PS what does SACRAMENTO do to these men #LOL - and the hotels are so bad I think MOTEL 6 is five star there.  I'm really sorry if you love SACRAMENTO or you left your heart there ( get it back please ) but it really was the worst trip I ever had, and for that, I scratch out the plan to go back.

I know I'm really harsh but the trip is really bad, so bad I left on my last night and go home.  Sacramento was once the thriving city of California where industry and urban life was the center of it all, now the armpit of California where you plan your next getaway to another city #LOL - Even the clients that I see born and raised in SACRAMENTO only has bad things to say, some even ask me what make me decide to work there, the only big industry there are blue diamond almonds and the other big company are leaving to another city, so people have no extra money for leisure.

Well like I said I tried, but here's to hoping SACRAMENTO will find its way like when it was established as the capital of California.  I think its more about city planning and good governance, like SAN JOSE who would have thought the known armpit of EAST BAY would now be the jewel of it ( check the housing prices there and see what I mean ).

#PS - speaking of SAN JOSE I might try to go there and see if I can build a clientele there, so if you're in / from SAN JOSE and reading this, check out my dates OK and see you ;)

LAS VEGAS ur in my HEART

The first time I came here in the US I probably wrote it in my older blog that I first came to RENO, the second city I been to was Las Vegas, I love Vegas so much that I came back two times after that ( that's 3 times in one year ).  When I started doing the BODY RUB I tried to work there, but word of mouth scared me that they are a little strict in Las Vegas to everything there ( unlicensed masseuse ) other than gambling, I don't want to risk it so I never post or tried it.  There's something about this recent trip that I decided to risk it, maybe its the absence of CRAIGSLIST / BACKPAGE  that make the industry a little anonymous or my filling credit card bills LOL.  So I decided to post in little-known websites and surprisingly I get replies, not as much as I expected but still good enough for me to see that Las Vegas is a viable place.  So I decided on putting Las Vegas on my future schedules, so Vegas I will see you again soon ;)

The LEAVE ME ALONE list

I usually have the rule in my BODYRUB - YOU CAN CONTACT ME BUY I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU - that's my GOLDEN RULE.  DISCRETION with your PERSONAL life is my priority and I respect that.

BUT - - - Yes there's a BUT, since the FOSTA / SESTA stupidity I have no way to contact my regular clients but to follow-up on them so I somewhat break my GOLDEN RULE.  But that leaves me no choice, how would I know if you miss me or want my service again other than to contact you, I know my regular client will contact me if they want - BUT ( again ) most of these clients don't save my details for their own personal situation.  So I make it a point to ONE-TIME text my regular client that I'm in town just to let them know.

MY HEART BREAKS - - - Well I have this regular client back in the day who is like a friend that always tells me that I'm like a family to him cause I see him monthly sometimes twice a month who text me back - HOW CAN I BE IN YOUR LEAVE ME ALONE LIST - which kinda breaks my heart.  You can just say nicely - CAN YOU NOT CONTACT ME ANYMORE, THANKS - and not be a DEUCE about it.  And so I block his number never to contact him forever, it hurts because I been always nice to him and he to me, but that's the past and things changes.

SO - - - to end this post, I like to apologize to the regular clients that I text broadcast when I'm in town, blame it to FOSTA / SESTA ( i hope this change eventually ) - and be NICE if you receive my text and you don't want me to contact you anymore just reply nicely to STOP and I will.  Plus I'm not like a TELEMARKETER who texts you every time, I only do it once when I'm in town ONCE ( that's once every 2 or 3 months ) - so don't be a DEUCE about it, thanks for reading ( see I'm very nice )...

We Are What We Are

We are beautiful

We are resilient

We are majestic

We are unique

We are kind

We are loving

We are peaceful

We are smart

We are respectful

We are you and me

If you have a problem with us

Look into the mirror and see

The real problem, that is you...

Memoirs Of Body Rub - partie un

Twas the night of chance, Henry the man of the night was feeling precarious, all his life he lives in red where life is restricted and judgment was easily given to anyone outside of the norm.  Henry's favorite color is blue no wonder he feels freed and at home from where he is right now, in the blue.  But the ways and culture he was built into echoes to him like conscience he wants to silence just once - if only he can escape, if only.  And the thought of the possibility overshadows the conscience that slowly deafening.  He is in blue and it's his chance, possibly his only chance to try something he always wants to do.  And Henry will or else this story is already over...

With a click, he found a way to escape, so many options so little time, there's this and that, that and this - a line that separates guilt and pleasure, you never know unless you take a chance, that's life in its entirety, take a chance.  He clicks on the girl in red, the girl in blue seems too much for his first time, so he sends his best and gets a reply.  A place and time parallel to a result that either put him in danger or sweet sweet solitude, and this somewhat excites Henry, as a pop-up site about BDSM came on his screen, close it Henry stay in the virgin territory...

It's happening and here Henry was wishing and hoping it will be an experience worth the risk - or please at the least pleasant, it's his first time, and the God of blue would give him that.  Driving to the Ms red was hard, the mixed emotion of excitement and fear envelopes him - when Henry makes it to the destination the fear wins as he decided on backing out, his thought is blue and red is the color of danger...
fade to black...

Forward, Backwards and further Back

Ok here's my view of what's happening to the "New America" as the title indicate we did step FORWARD on the last administration and ten times BACKWARDS in this new one.  I knew it will be a mess from the moment the administration turns but never thought it will be this kind of a mess, like a toilet, overflows and if it's not worse enough you slip and fell into it.  I will not get into details of all the shit that overflows from the toilet but focus on the shit that fell on my face, LOL.
I was happily planning my next trip and posting early on CRAIGSLIST to make a timetable for scheduling the appointment and as I click on the PERSONALS ads I was blocked this time, not by the flaggers but the system itself, the FOSTA /SESTA.
FOSTA ( Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act ) and SESTA ( Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act ).  The bill with its definition is self-explanatory but if you go deeper into the bill it mostly criminalized sexual freedom.

READ ON-
https://www.engadget.com/2018/03/30/congress-just-legalized-sex-censorship-what-to-know/
https://lawfareblog.com/fosta-new-anti-sex-trafficking-legislation-may-not-end-internet-its-not-good-law-either
http://time.com/5217280/sex-trafficking-fosta-craigstlist-reddit/
 
I seriously was writing this blog for 5 days and I just decided on letting you guys read on it, for me this bill is useless, I'm 100% on board with the sex trafficking being identified and stop and I believe there's a place in hell for people doing this ruthless thing, but this bill goes too far and beyond affecting consensual sex seekers, discriminating LGBT, and sexual curiosity that involves each and every one of us.  We are seriously living backward, whats next our internet being watch and censored by the government, oh never mind it's already happening, SHIT...

End of an Era

Well, I guess this is long coming, SESTA/FOSTA originated when BACKPAGE was allegedly caught with child trafficking and forced prostitution, the case was dismissed and the site was not held accountable.  Since then the GOP was up and about to give justice and concocted a bill to protect the children and trafficking which I am 100% on board, I believe there's a special place in hell for these people.  But since its the GOP they decide to move further and put their Catholic ways in the bill, its a sin these prostitutes are doing let's include them in the bill, consensual sex was also a sin its outside of the holy matrimony let's also include that, oh and the good book said procreate let's make the distribution of condoms a felony, our leader cheated with a porn star while his wife is pregnant, there's nothing wrong with that, grab them by the pussy - its OK and other brilliant ideas that only the GOP can come up with.
I'm just practicing my first amendments and this is my view of the shits that's been happening, I believe in free speech, the freedom of sexual expression, and the right to make a living.

Please if you're reading this, let's turn it around on the MIDTERMS in November, let's claim this country back, I love AMERICA so much and I'm not even born here, let's bring back this beautiful land of the free country to those who will love her back...

This is the End... Count to 10

Hi, how are you, sadly the only place I post for my BODY RUB was closed down and I won't go further on my bitter thoughts on why the heck this happens cause FREE SPEECH will soon be a thing of a past and INTERNET will soon be CENSORED, so I better live or write in FEAR.

So while I'm scouting for a place to post my BODY RUB I'm just gonna use this blog and hopefully, you will too for my updates on my future schedules, it's on the side ( right ) and with that my personal email relaxwithvia@gmail.com I hope we could get in touch...

P.S.  Any suggestion on an alternative website to post will be much appreciated, thank you ;)

Too Proud to Pay ( like Mary )

If you know the song congratulations you had a laugh on it, if not its PROUD MARY it's a good song ;)

Ok, I never have this issue in RENO to think that it's a small city ( the biggest little city in the world as the welcoming ark says ) and people are mostly not paid as well as California's, the issue is I don't pay for your kind of service ( hello high and mighty ).  So let's discuss this too proud to pay issues were having.

The simplest solution here is, have you ever been to a massage place, if yes that answers the issue simple right?  If no then you have to pay your masseuse again simple.  Though let me pull in some con of my service, I don't do massage I do Body Rub much more personal, I do my Body Rub with care and love cause I love what I do unlike them that treat it as a task so they treat your body like a task, like washing plates #LOL ( not my experience but my regular client who is now a fan of my Body Rub ).  And I'm very friendly and a very good listener, like having a cheaper therapist who will not charge you every time they ask you "and how do you feel about it?"  Also, its a donation ( not solicitation ), although there's a specific amount of donation which I believe I'm worth it ( according to my other regular client ).

Let me charm you with a story of my client, he was on this dating site and meet ts constantly through the dating site.  The scenario, meet a TS go on a date, the ts will order everything on the menu with take-out, after some chit-chat and eating, the ts will take her food and you pay the bill probably around $100 more or less and she will kiss your cheek and don't call ever.  My point is, with me you get more than a kiss on the cheek you get a relaxing whole Body Rub wink wink ;)  And way hotter than your hungry date ( according to my regular who share this story )

And if your issue is your too HOT, YOUNG, FIT and GOOD LOOKING - you can get TS anytime ( or just plain PROUD ).  I'm HOT too ( according again to my client #LOL ).  Were the same breed, and I'm doing this by choice and PROUD of it.  Treat it as an experience and I'll try to make it a good one.  Cause I love meeting people, being social, making friends, hearing your story, hear my story and be a part of your life ( even just for a while ).  So come over eat your pride, like that TS you date who shamelessly eating her take home from your dinner date... #HAHA

Trailer Trash

Or Camper whichever #lol

Before I start writing this blog, I want to greet my old and new readers Happy New Year 2018 - I hope the new year is treating you well and the last year 2017 is only but a thing of the past - which it is literally...

So the title implies of what my life has been since I move out from Reno, to everyone who already sees me in California you already know the situation and to my future clients who wants to see me here's your hint - and to my client in Reno who's reading this I know you told me so - #haha

But actually, it's not that bad, if its that bad I'm already setting up a #gofundme account asking you guys for money to buy me a better place but I'm not resorting to that, or should I? #lol

#CALIFORNIA california, i grow up watching movies and TV shows that picture California as the last of promise, and yes indeed, friendly chill people, healthy food (  there's this one restaurant in San Francisco that everything has AVOCADO in it ), nice warm weather and landmarks that you only see in movies ( those bridges you know )
And then I move and everything became real, I have to live with filthy horny millennials girls to share a room with the same amount of money I pay to live on my own one bedroom apartment in Reno.  And don't tell me how is it a dream come true to live with girls, it's a nightmare like tampons and condoms everywhere, for that, I need to buy small trashcans at every corner of the house, and some of these girls can't even shoot.  And since I'm living with people I have to look for an alternative place to do my Body Rub, good thing I met an angel who let me rent his trailer beside his house to do my side business.  The trailer is actually one of the good things that happen to me since I move, its nice, clean, located at an expensive zip code and the most promising of all, no roommates.  Since I started renting it out this month it became my heaven, a place I can be on my own and even a place that inspired to write this.  So why did I title this Trailer Trash ---
Well, all the clients the #californians who came for a Body Rub is all complaining that the place is not to their liking, I have to pump up the personality level to keep them occupied for 30 minutes or 60 minutes of their time, to take their mind off their in a trailer.  Yes, I know the place do not keep heat that much that's why I bought a heating blanket, no bathroom but I did warn you to pee before you conquer and you have to be extra discreet cause again it's a very private place, and also for your benefit.
But then again, statistically 90% of men that came to the trailer did ask to see me again, so I guess the trailer isn't that bad or my personality does the job.  So if you see me in #california and didn't schedule a return to my trailer for Body Rub, IT'S YOU and what did I do wrong ( angry face lol )